One step forward is followed by... - In the name of Thiago - Day 38
My poor old Dad has
had another dip and I’m really struggling with this now, I’ll gladly admit. I
really do feel for him as he’s clearly in a lot of pain but we’re fast running
out of sensible options for how to help him, which we desperately want to do.
The medication we have
for him should be helping him and it really was until this latest turn for the
worse. It just seems that we’re in a constant flux of home to hospital to home
to walk in centre and nothing really ever gets sorted.
I don’t know for how
much longer we can carry on – it really is destroying our home environment.
What I do know is that we can’t just sit back and hope that magically
everything is going to improve. There have been far too many false starts now
for that to be the case.
He was full of spirit
and bravado yesterday and I was riding with him on the crest of that wave but
as I said to him yesterday, I wanted to see a run of days of Dad being clearly
in perfectly reasonable health before we left him to his own devices and that
bird seems to have flown. For now at least.
My sister has said
that she would be happy to have Dad stay with her for a little while but even that‘s
going to be tricky as he doesn’t feel he needs someone to look out for him and
in any case his car is still in Chester. Everything just seems so complicated.
And the problem that I’m
finding now is that I just don’t seem to be very able to process the situation
and react in an appropriate manner. Unless of course the appropriate manner is
to upset Angelica, who is doing everything she can to help as I’ve written on
many occasions in this blog.
I know that I am not doing
well but equally I’m not sure what to do about it. However, I do know that I am
tired and hungry so I ought to do something about that at least. This I can manage.
Anything else just seems a little beyond me for the time being. I’m sure this
will change but for now I can do no more than see out the day.
I really hope I can
write something more positive tomorrow folks..
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