A house becomes a home - In the name of Thiago - Day 152
I had to chuckle today
when Dad turned up at the house shortly after 9am. He’d already been to Hanley
to buy a drill by the time he got to ours. He also turned up with a bag full of
washing. I always thought it was meant to be the children who came to their parents
with their dirty clothes. I suppose the boot’s been on the other foot for long
enough. And tomorrow he should be getting a washing machine delivered, so he is
getting there.
Angelica has been over
to his bungalow again today, helping him to get settled. I do feel slightly
conflicted about this. Angelica’s first instinct is always to help anyone,
quite literally, anyone. The problem is that Dad’s first instinct is to be
helped by anyone, quite literally, anyone. As far as Dad getting his independence
back is concerned, it’s a dangerous combination. But he’ll get there.
I must be fair-minded
about this though. He is settling into the place gradually and he’ll never be
rushed. Nope Dad does everything extremely fucking slowly and that’s the way it
is. I’m amazed in a sense that it ‘only’ took him seven months to move in
somewhere. But now he does have a place, he is getting some pride back and that’s
good to see.
As you can see from the
image above, the back yard was a bit overgrown when Dad moved in, and we’d not
got as far as doing anything about that until Angelica decided to go on a bit
of a mission this afternoon.
My good lady has been
hard at it pulling up all the weeds. It’s fair to say that once she gets stuck into
a task, there’s very little that can stop her. Unfortunately, as I was committed
to a staff video meeting at 2pm, she had to abort the task today and go and
grab Elisa from school, otherwise I’m sure she would have seen the task
through.
We’ve made a plan to
head back there on Sunday however, to finish things off. I might see if I can
lay my hands on a jet washer. It will be interesting to see whether Dad
maintains the momentum that Angelica is helping to build. I actually think he
can do it and it pleases me greatly to even think that.
I’ve been laid out on
this beauty today for a bit this evening but unfortunately my class got
curtailed as the instructor had a domestic emergency to attend to. But the
benefit of the class being cancelled was that I had a bit of 1-2-1 time to
discuss my physical challenges and also got to find out about a 20 minute
session that she’s putting on at 7am tomorrow. I looked for the positives in
the situation and I found them.
The evening ended with
a quick game over at Draycott with Leo. I was a bit anxious about the muscle
injury I have at the moment but after doing some yoga before I went out, I felt
a little more comfortable this time. We managed a set and a tie break before
the light caved and the clouds opened. For the record 7-6, (7-5) 10-8 as you
weren’t asking.
Keep the donations coming if you can guys. I know most of you reading this probably have already
donated, so any sharing you can do with your contacts would be really helpful
too. Just got to keep getting that message out there..
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